when your conversations always go back to the same arguement over and over from something one of you did that hurt the other. try to understand the reason behind the others actions. was it outside interference that caused the problem. we all know inside if its really over or repairable can we live with what happened and get past it if not its time to let go. love is a hard thing to let go of the real question is how much do you love them. do you love them enough to let them go so you can both live a healthy life without the stress of arguing. there is one more thing. it takes two to make it work and it takes two to destroy it. most generally both people are at fault cause they werent willing to be openminded enough to see the others point of view.
hope this helps
and wish you both the best

Its over when you get tired of seeing that person if she just got in. Its bettr ot just become firend first

danke...

i like the first anonymous ans..totally true..i'm in the middle of this situation..but, things could get the other way round anytime..so, my advice is try to work things out until you really feels that nothing could work nemore..then, stop..do not torture yourself..

when he/she says it is. ;] u'll get the hint.