If the first one was your true love and still your true love, you should wait for her..do not be with someone you dont love, it will hurt both of you.. Another thing, a nice girl like the one you like must be looking for some proves that you really love her and its the right thing to be with you..she did say that she didnt want to mess things up, and that means that she dont wanna lose u..so i think she might like you, but the problem is you do not show that you really love her..going out with someone else is a really wrong thing to do to get her..

Don't listen to the previous advice. This girl you love thinks you are ok as a friend but nothing more. Keep going out with your present girl. It might make girl number one jealous. And your present girl might turn out to be the real deal.

I think the girl has its own reason why she must let you go... i think waiting is the best part but dont let the door be close, its not wrong to nterain other but make sure the real feelings you have,.. Just remember the Song "Somewhere down the road" by Nina... "Sometimes good-byes are not forever
It doesn't matter if you're gone
I still believe in us together
I understand more than you think I can
You have to go out on your own
So you can find your way back home" And somewhere down the road
Our roads are gonna cross again
It doesn't really matter when
But somewhere down the road
I know that heart of yours
Will come to see
That you belong with me
Letting go is just another way to say
I'll always love you so

look you got kicked to the friend zone... thats a harsh way of saying it but its true...and to be honest if your friendship holds through maybe there is something more in store for you...friendships can very well be ruined by dating...but then again im still friends with friends i have dated and some i lost the friendship with....it really depends on on strong your friendship is...there is no advice to this...you have to look inside yourself and find the answer...only you know what to do

ahh.. I remember being in these.. there really is no right answer to this because the girl could be looking to only be friensd with you or wait to see if she really loves you each situation is different depending on what the other person really wants. its hard to say if you should wait or not, I'll give you an example that happend to me over just this year (starting at septermber). there was this girl I really just fell head over heels for and the more time we spent together the more i fell in love with her and we wanted to date but it was between me or this other guy. and believe me i knew the other guy and he was a dick... but saying anything will make me look jealous/bad etc, so making the decscion easyer for her and hoping she'd see what i was really doing was trying to open her eyes to pick me, I backed off. still waiting for her while i had 4 other girls i liked chasing after me that i did like they didnt capture my heart like she did so i put them off, and she kept coming to me like i knew she would talking about what he did etc and asking what i think she should do, like before i didn't wana bad mouth him and sweet talk her to get her, so I said if you think he really deserves another chance give it to him just becareful don't get hurt. they broke up serveral times and everytime they broke up she'd come on to me and as we looked like we would date she would go back with him and i'd get heart broken. this litteralty went on till about january, where i then went into the hospital for something that happend to me, anyways i was out of school for a few weeks and i talked to her over msn and it looked like after i got back to school that id finaly get to be with her after waiting so long, then i find out she got another bf.. heart broken I couldnt take anymore so I cut her out then she started calling my house emailing me none stop and geting my friends to send msgs for her over msn for me. soon afterwords on valintines day I fell in love with another girl and she took my breath away. I love her so much more than anything, I waited so long for that other girl but we never happend, and not just that but he ended up sleeping with one of her best friends and i hadnt talked to her for ages, i went to her in person and told her she didn't believe me. I've now been with this new girl now it will be 5 months on the 14th of july ,

I can't tell you weather or not to wait and im not saying your you will have a simular story etc, this new girl your with maybe she could be what your waiting for but if you don't love her maybe you shouldn't be with her. even if you don't get to be with the one you love , make sure the one your with is a person you love even if its not the person that first made you feel that love, because the next one could be just as or even better/amazing.

I'm getting her a necklace soon with our names engraved on it I hope she will like it.

talk to her tell her that its a risk that everyone takes in life most friends come out of it ok they learn their true feelings some get closer some go back to the way they were