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Should I let my boyfriend take my virginity
IM 18 yrs old n i havent have sex yet i was waitin for tha rite dude n now i truly believe that he is da one dat i should loose it 2 we been 2getha for 2 months n i really believe dat i am ready should i wait a lil bit longer of should i juss give it up can u answer my question sexii 23
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Hold on to it a bit longer you have only been with him for 2 months... you've already waited 18 years another 4 months is nothing... trust me guys are shady and there is no way to know if he really likes you or if he just wants to pop your cherry!! i think if you can make it to 6 months then go for it, then atleast you know he likes you!!! good luck!!
■ Asker response : well ur rite i juss wnt to say thank u if i can wait for 18 yrs i belive dat i cn wait juss a lil bit longer
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A BIG NO!!!!!
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I think its fine if you honestly feel hes the one, dont forget marriage and stuff never nessicaryily is forever or lasts, just remember it doesnt matter who you give it to, let me finish before you go like spaz, it doesnt matter who you give it to AS LONG AS YOU LOVE THE PERSON then its fine atleast in my opinion
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yup.. u can go for it if u feel to do so.... enjoy lyf...
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This response (obviously a girl) is not fair to all guys many guys can be shady but a lot of them are not and same could go for girls however I do like her response you have only been together for 2 months that's not very long at all I would say wait at least a year to make sure he loves you also 18 is very young most people do stay with their "one" at that young of age anyway there is 2 paths you can take 1 is wait for your one and only to have sex with and usually people wait for marriage for that so they will be absolutely sure and the other is to have sex with people you like and have fun either one is fine but it's up to you :)
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Good on you for waiting keeping it till you're 18, that's longer than I held out. I lost mine at 17 to someone who I was with for a month or so, they ditched me soon after. It took me a while to get over that. I'd say use this time to learn about foreplay. Also, perhaps you should learn to spell before you start being sexually active. How old is the guy? These are the sorts of things we should work out for ourselves not rely on random internet advice for. Follow your heart, but never let anyone make you do anything that you don't want to do, sexual or otherwise. And don't worry if it's not exactly what you had in mind at first. The Indians have spent thousands of years researching and sex, see if you can find a book about Karma Suitra.
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PLEASE WAIT...they're right you never know...I mean I lost mine wen I was 14 but we ended up bein together for 2 years...young love...puppy love wutever u wanna call it...but I wish I wuda waited...but another guy I dated wen I started college a year ago was the BEST I thought I would ever get he was SO sweet and he did EVERYTHING ryt then I let it happen and things went downhill...found out he was playin me the whole time but after I was over him he ended up bein a stalker and harrassing me! like I was the one who was playin him and left him!...jus be careful
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when you meet the right person, you wont need to ask if its right........you already know what u should do
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Do you have any spiritual beliefs that should be guiding you? If so, those are the values that should be guiding you in making this decision, not popular opinion. I'm a Christian personally, and the Bible says to wait until marriage - not until we THINK it's Mr. Right. But whatever your beliefs are, know that you're still in the "honeymoon" phase. It takes a good 6 months to 1 year before you even BEGIN to know the real person. At 2 months people are usually putting on their best front still because they're trying to get to the next level (whatever that is for them). Also, keep in mind that it's not wise to start heading down a path with consequences you're not prepared to live with. You've been wise enough to wait 18 years so don't make reckless decisions now. Do you have time to raise a baby? Can you afford gas in your car, baby clothes, clothes for you, a cell phone bill, rent, daycare, diapers, Similac, and your own college tuition? And if this guy should have a disease like AIDS or herpes that will be with you for LIFE, do you love him enough that you don't mind carrying these diseases? These are things you should also ask yourself instead of just following the crowd or even your heart. Our hearts decide things on emotion, and emotions are up and down. Use wisdom.
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Nahh girl u sleepp!
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