thats a bunch of bull shit...im a girl and ive done the same thing before and the stupid ass guy took me back even though hes was never # 1 in mi life....even though i told him he was.....i wouldnt take her back, because think about it, if the other guy ever wants her back what do you think shes gona do...thats right shell dump you again...you need to start a new life with somebody better than that.........

hope this helps :)

Take her back until you find a better girl ;)

it is a very good sign that she doesnt love you. a lady will stay if she truely loves you. she probably has a selfish reason for being with you. i can tell you really like her and you probably think you may never get another like Her.Dude the choice is yours men. but remember if you take her back Prepare your Heart for another Shocker, chances are she is gonna leave a second time if you open your arms to her again. i ve seen it happen a thousand times to a friend of mine. advice? find another person who will appreciate you enough to stay Dude. wish you success men.

Take her back, get any physical action you require then dump her very quickly.

Will help you feel better and lower her esteem. Win/win for you.

dont trust her again and start new life with new girl

Obviously she stopped loving you, she left for another man. If she loved you then she wouldn't have left. Tell her "no, thanks" You will much happier in the long run.

Don't take her back, if you weren't important enough to her, than she doesn't matter anymore

dump her, get a dog

people change. and i totally disagree with the get the physical action. think with your brain, not your parts. if you see she's changed, and you truly loved her, and you let her wait, and no matter what happens, many guys ask her out, her life is changing, and she really waits and wants to share life with you. then let her. people make mistakes. why is the general public so unforgiving ? sometimes people get confused. sometimes people want to experiment. she did. and she didn't like it. so apparently, she thought you were the best. i'd take that as a compliment. (:

Dat is crap man... dat gal aint worth it, she just gonna dump u for some other guy again... just fuhget her n move on...
Anon is ryt...

It is what you feel in your gut ...go with it but know it could happen again if you do not understand why it happened in the first place. Counceling for both would be in order if she is serious.in conciling you will get to the reason why she did what she did then you can decide if it is worth another chance .Otherwise you are taking a risk.If some one wants to show an effort and go to  couples thearpy  then that is proof enought for me that that persoon wants to make it right .It takes two willing people .

Have your best friend tell her you died.