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Category : Relationships » Sexuality | Posted by : Anon | Posted on : 6/24/2009 | Updated on : 6/24/2009
Keywords : rather, have, boyfriend, masterbate, would, sex
My boyfriend would rather masterbate than have sex with me, Why?
sexless relationship, need help...
My boyfriend prefer to masterbate than have sex, its been one year

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LOL fail! FAIL FAIL FAIL LOLOLOLOL
Tell him that if he keeps this up you will leave him, it works every time, now make it convincing
he must be GAY
yup, i think that he is gay..
Just talk to him about it honestly.
Obviously there's something going on in his head that you, and many other people don't understand. Try to work it out with him. If you're feeling like it's your fault, like you don't bring enough pleasure to him, that's not right.
If that's his deal, then you're too good for him.
And yes, it does seem kind of queer that he'd do that :S
Maybe you're not his type? ;-)
maybe hes going through a phase or stress or something, or perhaps he's wanting you to take him agressively , sorta like take charge, its a turn on for some guys , try that possibly, did he show any signs that perhaps you arent good having intercourse? or something try having oral sex or give him a hj see how that works then eventually try to slip him in you see if makes a dif or something if not maybe he needs medication because of something, try possibly wearing something arousing to turn him on , music candles, scents etc, I sometimes don't have sex with my fiance when we get into a fight and it drives her nuts, and then she ends up doing something i listed above and breaks me, but it helps though so its good,
Maybee hes not ready for sex or he dont know that you are ready and he dont want to ask
PWNDED! ROFLL!! That is a FAIL! :]
Ok so heres what I say:
He's gay
His *coughs* might be small so he might be embarrassed.
He's not ready (prefers till marriage)
Um are u any good at it? Ask urself.
He's scared of it. Of u. Of something. Idk... :D

Love isn't all about sex. Wait till ur both ready. Dudee.
have you asked him about it?
me and my bf go days without havin sex (lol days is a long time for us!) but i can't help myself and just ask him if there's maybe a reason why he's not been all over me for a bit, usually he says he's tired or just not feeling sexual right now. or maybe i've done his head in about it so much it puts him off sex for a little bit! lol but all the time i know he's masturbating at least once a day, providing he gets the chance. he tells me it's coz sometimes he doesn't feel sexual but he just needs to get it out - no pun intended!

i reckon ur bf is 1. just not ready; 2. waiting for you to make the first move (it's been a while so it will probably feel like the first time the more time that goes by); 3. just not a v sexual person concerning other people; 4. sorry to say it but, gay; 5. or something else he feels like he can't share with you. like a kink or something.

you need to talk to him.

you posted this a while ago so hope you have it sorted by now! ^.^
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