I think that you should say to them sorry but i dont want to beat her up she only looked at me and you should say if you want me to beat people up all the time im going leave the gang x

If you don't want to do something, then don't do it.

Tell them the truth that you don't want to beat her up. Then leave the gang and find better mates! Doesn't sound like they are a good group of people.

Study hard, that's much more important than any peer pressure being in a gang.

maybe you are sooooo cute and she admires you that is if your a boy like me i love this guy and when i look at him i think i look wierd soo don't beat her up just ask her why she looks at you all the time

Then don't do it.

the question is why are you in a gang? are you seeking protection, or comrade? in either case unless you have a distorted perception of the world, this will be the first of many inner conflicts so long as you are a member. ps will your gang bail you out after you get locked up? because her parents might also press charges.

go up to your "leader" tell him you want out. ask him what he represents, (probally his ignorance) ask him what block he claims, because gangs dont run shit, the police do. as soon as the police come thru the "gang bangers" scatter like lil mice. then last ask him what he wants to do with his life, keep paying the governments light bills, with all the fines and jail time you "put in"? didnt think so..