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Doubb, when I was a teenager I had feelings about many of my cousins and they had the same with me. Of course, when I was a teenager I did a lot of foolish things because I was young and was just coming into manhood. I was feeling my oates sort-of-speak. And man was I girl-crazy. My hormones was popping out all over the place, but I didn't have the kind of counselling that I'm going to give you. There wasn't regular communication with my Dad about such matters. There wasn't much communications at all about the things of life that a young man need to share with his Father and vice versa, not that you're a young man. Whether or not you are a teenager or a mature man. It's only natural to feel something when you're in the presence of a female that's not old and decrepid. Any natural red blooded male that comes in the presence of a female will have a certain reaction inside his body. That is natural with all men, regardless of the relationship of the person. The mere fact that she is a woman will trigger the reaction. God made man this way.
Because of the day and time that we are now living in, promiscuity, committing adultry, wife-swapping, shacking up, rape, incest, teachers with their students, parents with their kids, homosexuality, lesbianism, beastiality and other forms of filty living is becoming prevalent in society. It is like a cancer, it's spreading like wild-fire and will engulf all in it's path. Can you imagine every state just like San Francisco. That's how Sodom and Gomorrah was when God destroyed it. Poor or no home training is what's doing it along with no moral example in the home. You need to resist the feeling that you have Snarf. It doesn't matter at all whether or not the other person feels the same way. Stop feeding of those thoughts and give your life to the Lord Jesus. Let Him lead you and guide you because whoever is giving you advice to the contrary and edging you on is definitely not your friend.
If I can be of further help drop me a line at igotmail@gci.net. I hope you seriously consider this and stop entertaining those thoughts. I know how hard it is, believe me, I've been there and the only way I've been able to resist it is with the help of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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