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um... piece of advise.. you really care about him? you love him unconditionally? and yet you still catch him in lie after lie after lie right?? ya.. my boyfriends the same way.. and after 9 months together.. he finally admitted to me that he was a compulsive liar.. and he told me that he just couldn help it. that that was just who and how he was and is.. well.. still with him, cuz i cant leave him.. i care too much about him.. but at the same time.. my question for him when he told me that was "if you love me and i mean the world to you like you say i do,, then you'll be able to do more then just TRY not to lie to me right?" and he had no answer.. things seemed to have gotten a little better.. but at the same time, you can tell when he lies, and you can confront him.. but you need hard evidence to get him to realize you know everyhting.. so do some digging.. maybe you'll be able to change things.. but then again,, guys dont change unless they're forced to.. i doubt he'll change.. if he does, then your lucky, and if not, then hell.. its life, either you'll continue to deal with it like i have, and question him on things when things seem screwed up.. or you'll lose him--which he's lying to you anyways. so whats it matter.. ya btw-- i also have a kid on the way- its his- it was planned- and hes happy- but he still lies on a weekly basis.. so some ppl.. ya.. THEY JUST DONT CHANGE! good luck.
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