yes it hurts the first times, it's very common, and this can last a long time in some cases.

You must talk with your bf about what you like and what hurts, you must work together to make this experience much better, you'll have take some time for sexual play before, fear also can cause pain, ...

if you think or feel that your pain is a physical issue, then it's best to consult your doctor.

YOUR DOING IT WRONG!!!

Try different positions...try going slow at first ..don't just ram it in ( if you know what i mean )..there should be some foreplay involved to get your body ready for what it is about to endure.you might be tense and that makes your muscles tighten up. it will feel good to him, but if you are not comfortable ..you need to tell him or he will not know you are in pain...and if he truely cares for your wellbeing, he will do what is necessary for the both of you to be comfortable. but i can tell you this, it does take pain to receive pleasure.BUT not for the sake of someone else's pleasure. i am sure other things are involved.e-mail me if you want to talk about this in more detail. akost@prem-ind.com no pressure. just a ear to listen.

Lubrication. Whether its natural or not, it really does help. Especially the first times, when a girl is, well, 'tighter.'

Try to take Lubricant and use the possision u llike and fell good.