Because you’re reading this, I assume that you already have reasons to believe that your spouse might be cheating on you. In such a case, you will find this article very useful. However, if you’re reading this just out of curiosity or joblessness, I strongly advise you to close this window straight away. That’s because this article will influence your thinking in such a way, that you can end harming, or even destroying a relationship.
With this, here are a few tell-tail signs of a cheating spouse.
Contraceptive pills
Your wife’s hiding pills in her cupboard, and you’ve had a vasectomy, there might be something wrong. However, women do take such pills for other medical reasons too. So worry about it only if she hasn’t told you even after a very long time. Moreover, check the other signs too before you ask her any awkward questions.
Too many business trips
If he’s started going on an insane number of business trips, you might have something to worry
about. Just check if those excursions were legitimate, and what he did during those trips. Check the credit card bills, cash memos etc.
New cell phone?
Having a land-line has a few advantages. It makes sure that the bill comes to the house, unlike a prepaid mobile phone, which makes no record of the calls made or received. Although a new phone may not sound very abnormal, it becomes a significant factor if you haven’t been told.
The Sniff Test
Your man leaves home smelling of his usual deodorant, but comes back smelling of something else, you better watch out!!
Paranoid about the answering machine?
Does he/she run to the answering machine as if you both were in a race? And then deletes calls from the call logs? Next time, be wise and get to the machine first.
Keep in touch with his/her co workers
Do you sense an awkward silence when you’re around your spouse’s co-workers? Well, buck up!! There might be something that they know, and you don’t!! Build good rapport with them. That way, you might be able to read their minds in case something’s happening to your relationship.
Once more I warn the reader that although these tips are invaluable with respect to catch a cheating spouse red-handed, you must resort to them only if you have very strong reason. Else, you might be putting your faithful partner into unnecessary embarrassment, thereby jeopardizing your relationship.
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