'Hey, the food cooked was good but it could have more tasty if the salt and sugar combination would have more proper in quantity' Don't we get this kind of comments from guests at home. Some other similar comments like, to a singer- your song is not upto the mark, to a musician-music is bad; the party thrown was not good. All I want to say is criticizing other. In our society you will find lot of people those who are not satisfy with anything and always complain about everything. These people are of such a nature that they will find a flaw even with the best of this world. In society you will find these categories of people within the business and they always feel that they are doing bad, they never bother to compare with those who are struggling for survival. You can find this category of people within any organization where they feel they are getting the lowest salary but forget to compare themselves with those who are job less or searching for the jobs. You will find these categories of people within the family, who feel that his or her family life is the worst one, having no happiness and peace but at the same time they forget about those who lost their family member or do not have any family member. These comparing and remembering all those people who do not have the same which you have atleast give utmost satisfaction and peace of mind. Criticizing other and identifying somebody's fault is a very easy but the return is big zero. If you are a fault finder or a criticizer then you will become the most dis liked person to the other, the real joy or pleasure consists in motivating the other, appraising the other.

One simple thing you need to remember to win somebody's heart is to bring smile on his or her face. This is the general phenomenon of any human being is listening good about himself and feeling bad of listening to any criticizing about himself.

The fact is that there is nothing to gain by pin pointing somebody, if you can do some value addition then it is fine to pin point somebody like teacher, who find fault to guide or teach the right thing, like doctor identify diseases because he know how to cure it, like priest who can also pin point because he can guide with the right direction. When you are not a mentor or your criticism is not with intentions to rectify the other person’s error then you do not have any right to make the other person down with vague demotivating statement. If you dislike something with somebody, then you can state like that you have done the best job why don't you something different like this way, and in this way show him the correct way as well as the other person will also feel happy with you. We have seen the in office or in family seniors most of the time scold or humiliate if any mistake happen, but by scolding or humiliating you cannot change anybody's nature or mistake because you are demotivating the other person. On other hand getting angry on somebody is also injurious for health because it leads to high blood pressure which in turn affects the heart. So do not demotivate others by this you will be happy and can make others happy.